Sunday, August 8, 2010

SAINTS IN SIN CITY

The month of July usually provides me with a lot of time to reflect on such things as the contributions of the founding fathers of the United States of America, the sacrifices of the many who have given so much for the freedoms which I enjoy and those family pioneers whose struggles have paid forward to a very grateful progeny. With the passing of a very dear friend and the enjoyment of a mini family reunion with our children and grandchildren, this July has also filled my mind with another benefit which has greatly blessed my life.

As we huggingly greeted those who gathered at the Memorial for Joyce Woodward, I was bombarded with the accumulated joy which had been somewhat put in shadows during the 19 years since we left Reno, Nevada to serve a mission in Colombia. One of the great ironies of my employment with the Church Education System was that although I was daily studying and teaching the gospel of love, I was not allowed to embrace any of those with whom I associated either professionally or socially. It was a wonderful thing in my retirement to find myself encircled in the arms of these people who I love so dearly.

Kathleen and I were invited by George Keele, the presiding Elder, at the Memorial to say a few words about Joyce and our experience with her. From the vantage point of the pulpit as I was voicing how much she had meant to me as we worked together for several years at the Reno Institute of Religion, I was able to look into the collective faces of those with whom I had just been able to exchange a touch of love for the first time. As I was trying to concentrate on the words I was saying about how this faithful secretary had been such a strength to me on so many occasions, I was somewhat overcome by the realization of what the association with so many congregated in the chapel had meant to me in my life. Since I spent almost thirty percent of my life with these wonderful people it should be easy to understand what an impact they have had on my progress.

I will refrain from using their names, but hopefully as I innumerate their contributions to my growth they will recognize themselves and what they have meant in the life of a grateful neophyte.

I looked into the face of one who had been very successful in gaining the means of living a very good life, but I saw one who regarded integrity more than wealth. One who also taught me through example that with accumulation, we inherit the stewardship of becoming a wise, charitable distributor.

I looked into the face of one who taught me that we all must progress at our own pace and that we are all on a different part of the path at any given moment. I was taught that steady pace and direction on the path are more important than position or degree of progress.

I looked into faces of some who had brought an extra special spirit to church meetings because of the musical gifts they shared. They taught me that the spoken word is but one way to help people come closer to Christ.

I looked into faces of those who once sat in classes where I was designated as teacher who little realized in those sessions who was the real learner. Even on that day they were not completely aware of the great influence they were having on me and others.

As I looked into these faces I realized they were but a small representation of all those who had contributed so much to me during the 20 years we were privileged to live in the shadows of the Sierras. There were many others in the congregation as well as many who were not attending who also made great contributions to my passage, but I will have to record their gifts to me on some future occasion.

At the family reunion I spent time with those dear ones of my life with whom there never has been a restrictive absence or lack of hugging. In the desert northeast of Pyramid Lake I was involved with those who have made the deepest and most consistent impact on my life. Dear ones with whom I have spent all or a portion of 70 percent of my mortal sojourn. An account of their meaningfulness in my life will also have to wait for another day.

Kathleen frequently reminds me how good I am at introductions and how I often leave little time to expound on the body of my lessons, so now that you have the introduction let me get to the point.

During the whole intensively reflective month of July which, as I have said, centered on the contributions others have made in my life, never once did a negative recollection enter the stage of my mind. There were no warts, blemishes, nor frowny faces. There were no hurts, harmful sayings, nor hateful accusations. There were no mistakes, misconducts, nor malicious actions. Everyone came into my mind clean and pure with nothing in their scripts except positive words, thoughts and actions.

As I now ponder upon my pondering I wonder if for just a moment I was able to embrace in a flash-by bit of inspired thought the Mind of our all loving Heavenly Father. A Mind which fills itself with all the good and contributive acts of His children and whenever possible erases the errors which accompany their mortality.

A Mind which is preoccupied with progress toward perfection and finding ways to divert us away from destructive detours. A Mind which is continually looking at the saintliness of the inhabitants of all cities and not the sinning.

The summation of my pondering upon this fruitful month, is that I am more convinced now than ever before, that there is no scale in heaven which measures our sins against our service, but Heavenly Father looks solely upon the accumulation of our saint-like acts as he enfolds us in His ever extended arms to welcome us home and bestows upon us that degree of glory merited by the positive contributions of our lives.

17 comments:

  1. Brother Riley,

    As always, wow. Thank you for the thoughts…so profound, and especially welcome at this time. You are such a good writer; very succinct and orderly you’re your thoughts. You have a talent for sharing complex insights in an understandable way. Thank you for including me on this email list.

    Have a wonderful day!

    Sherri Bewsey

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  2. Hi Pres. Riley,

    I know I don't respond frequently or look at facebook very often, but I had an experience today that runs directly in the vein of your pensamiento. I am currently serving on the high council in our stake. This morning we had the opportunity to meet with Elder Webb of the seventy for several meetings. In one of those meetings the subject of missionaries was being discussed. He spoke of an experience he had w/ Pres. Eyring in which Pres. Eyring said that missionaries aren't necessarily called to missions, but to mission presidents.

    I found that interesting, because on more than one occasion as I have reminisced or recalled something learned during my mission (which happens almost daily now I think about it) I have thought that your leadership as my mission president was a custom fit to my needs at that time. Your gentle hand of guidance, leadership through example, and ability to motivate inspired me not only to fill what I have always considered to be a successful mission, but helped me to become the priesthood holder I am today. Thanks to you and Sis. Riley for all you do and have done. Consider yourselves recipients of one of those hugs you wrote about. :)

    Your friend, Ross Hugues

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  3. thank you for sharing all of those thought.
    Laura Almond Laramie

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  4. thank you for sharing all of those thought. Laura Almond Laramie

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  5. I am assumming that Reno is Sin City and so that makes Sparks what? Actually just want to thank you both for your words today- I had no idea about Joyce but have nothing but fond memories of her- she put up with so much from all of us supposedly mature young adults (especailly me) but was never cross and always sweet and thoughtful. Thank you Bill for the lessons oserved and taught in those short maturing years of our lives, and upon reflection of those years, for the important input you had into the formation of many our life foundations. I would not want to go back but they were choice and important years for most of us. I detect that your reflections also bring up misty tinted thoughts of all that the past can represent- thanks to you both again

    Brent Troutner

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  6. Your best "Thoughts" ever! Thank you for your thoughts, your example and your insights about life and the Gospel! And, thanks for taking the time to share them!

    Debi Woffinden

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  7. Bill, how have you all been? I am living here in Vegas loving life
    My good friend Ray Lunsford lives about ten minutes away. Where do you and your family live now? thank you for the thoughts you send.
    Jerry Austin

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  8. Dear Pres. Riley,

    I have enjoyed your weekly thoughts for the Sabbath. I was especially touched by this one today. I was sorry to hear of the passing of Joyce Woodward. She was my second grade teacher at Hunter Lake Elementary School. One thing I remember most about her was how kind she was and how I felt loved by her, even though I was one of many students. Twenty years later I was amazed that she still remembered me. Like our Savior, she was a person who focused on the one.

    We have lived in Utah for fourteen years. We felt very much directed by the Lord to move here from Reno and our family has been blessed for obeying those promptings. We love it here but as we have occasion to go to Reno to visit family and friends, we experience those same feelings you had at Joyce’s funeral. There are so many good and faithful saints there who have touched our lives in countless ways. It always feels like coming home to be in their presence once again.

    As I reflect on my association with you, I am grateful for your help as a new convert as my bishop in the University Ward over thirty years ago. I also reflect on the people who loved me into the church and taught me the gospel of Jesus Christ through example. There were so many people who crossed my path throughout my young life in Reno. I did not know they were planting seeds that would grow many years later. I could feel that there was something about these people but I had no idea that it was the spirit I was feeling when I was with them. There was Joyce Woodward, my beloved teacher; Frank Watson, Faye Sobrio and Bro. and Sis. Cowley, customers at my drive-up window at the bank on California and Arlington where I was employed during my college years; Jill (Freeland) Keele, Maxine (Johnson) Jamieson and Sherma (Cowley) Hardy, my good friends since elementary school; and Fred Horlacher, one of my favorite teachers ever (he made Nevada History come alive). As I was investigating the church, I was amazed to see all these great people at church functions. I remember thinking, if all these wonderful people know this church is right and true, I should look into it. Little did I know that the Lord had been preparing me, even from a young age, to embrace the gospel. All the people in the University Ward made me feel so welcome when I came to church. I truly was loved into the church!

    Now, I am coming up on my 32nd anniversary in the church and it is hard to imagine life without it. I am so grateful to have the gospel. Our youngest son, Tyler, is now sharing that same wonderful gospel message with the people in Johannesburg, South Africa, and loves every minute of it. Our oldest son, Aaron, served in the Japan Sendai mission. Our three oldest children have been married in the temple and we now have 3 ½ grandchildren. I have been able to do a lot of temple work for my ancestors – there’s still much to do. I’m still the only member in my family but my parents’ hearts have softened as they see that I am not a crazy religious fanatic, but I am just trying to live a good life.

    It is interesting to see the hand of the Lord in our lives. It is also humbling to see how we can bless each other’s lives through our associations with one another. Thank you for the things you taught me as my Bishop and later as my Stake President. Thank you for continuing to teach me through your thoughts each week. May the Lord’s choicest blessings be with you and your family.

    Sincerely, Corinne McCombs

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  9. Dear Pres. Riley,

    I have enjoyed your weekly thoughts for the Sabbath. I was especially touched by this one today. I was sorry to hear of the passing of Joyce Woodward. She was my second grade teacher at Hunter Lake Elementary School. One thing I remember most about her was how kind she was and how I felt loved by her, even though I was one of many students. Twenty years later I was amazed that she still remembered me. Like our Savior, she was a person who focused on the one.

    We have lived in Utah for fourteen years. We felt very much directed by the Lord to move here from Reno and our family has been blessed for obeying those promptings. We love it here but as we have occasion to go to Reno to visit family and friends, we experience those same feelings you had at Joyce’s funeral. There are so many good and faithful saints there who have touched our lives in countless ways. It always feels like coming home to be in their presence once again.

    Corinne McCombs

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  10. As I reflect on my association with you, I am grateful for your help as a new convert as my bishop in the University Ward over thirty years ago. I also reflect on the people who loved me into the church and taught me the gospel of Jesus Christ through example. There were so many people who crossed my path throughout my young life in Reno. I did not know they were planting seeds that would grow many years later. I could feel that there was something about these people but I had no idea that it was the spirit I was feeling when I was with them. There was Joyce Woodward, my beloved teacher; Frank Watson, Faye Sobrio and Bro. and Sis. Cowley, customers at my drive-up window at the bank on California and Arlington where I was employed during my college years; Jill (Freeland) Keele, Maxine (Johnson) Jamieson and Sherma (Cowley) Hardy, my good friends since elementary school; and Fred Horlacher, one of my favorite teachers ever (he made Nevada History come alive). As I was investigating the church, I was amazed to see all these great people at church functions. I remember thinking, if all these wonderful people know this church is right and true, I should look into it. Little did I know that the Lord had been preparing me, even from a young age, to embrace the gospel. All the people in the University Ward made me feel so welcome when I came to church. I truly was loved into the church!

    Now, I am coming up on my 32nd anniversary in the church and it is hard to imagine life without it. I am so grateful to have the gospel. Our youngest son, Tyler, is now sharing that same wonderful gospel message with the people in Johannesburg, South Africa, and loves every minute of it. Our oldest son, Aaron, served in the Japan Sendai mission. Our three oldest children have been married in the temple and we now have 3 ½ grandchildren. I have been able to do a lot of temple work for my ancestors – there’s still much to do. I’m still the only member in my family but my parents’ hearts have softened as they see that I am not a crazy religious fanatic, but I am just trying to live a good life.

    It is interesting to see the hand of the Lord in our lives. It is also humbling to see how we can bless each other’s lives through our associations with one another. Thank you for the things you taught me as my Bishop and later as my Stake President. Thank you for continuing to teach me through your thoughts each week. May the Lord’s choicest blessings be with you and your family.

    Sincerely,

    Corinne McCombs

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  11. As I reflect on my association with you, I am grateful for your help as a new convert as my bishop in the University Ward over thirty years ago. I also reflect on the people who loved me into the church and taught me the gospel of Jesus Christ through example. There were so many people who crossed my path throughout my young life in Reno. I did not know they were planting seeds that would grow many years later. I could feel that there was something about these people but I had no idea that it was the spirit I was feeling when I was with them. There was Joyce Woodward, my beloved teacher; Frank Watson, Faye Sobrio and Bro. and Sis. Cowley, customers at my drive-up window at the bank on California and Arlington where I was employed during my college years; Jill (Freeland) Keele, Maxine (Johnson) Jamieson and Sherma (Cowley) Hardy, my good friends since elementary school; and Fred Horlacher, one of my favorite teachers ever (he made Nevada History come alive). As I was investigating the church, I was amazed to see all these great people at church functions. I remember thinking, if all these wonderful people know this church is right and true, I should look into it. Little did I know that the Lord had been preparing me, even from a young age, to embrace the gospel. All the people in the University Ward made me feel so welcome when I came to church. I truly was loved into the church!

    Corinne McCombs

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  12. Now, I am coming up on my 32nd anniversary in the church and it is hard to imagine life without it. I am so grateful to have the gospel. Our youngest son, Tyler, is now sharing that same wonderful gospel message with the people in Johannesburg, South Africa, and loves every minute of it. Our oldest son, Aaron, served in the Japan Sendai mission. Our three oldest children have been married in the temple and we now have 3 ½ grandchildren. I have been able to do a lot of temple work for my ancestors – there’s still much to do. I’m still the only member in my family but my parents’ hearts have softened as they see that I am not a crazy religious fanatic, but I am just trying to live a good life.

    It is interesting to see the hand of the Lord in our lives. It is also humbling to see how we can bless each other’s lives through our associations with one another. Thank you for the things you taught me as my Bishop and later as my Stake President. Thank you for continuing to teach me through your thoughts each week. May the Lord’s choicest blessings be with you and your family.

    Sincerely,

    Corinne McCombs

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  13. Bill,
    I know that there is much more to the following than I'm addressing, I don't mean to discredit The Pearl of Great Price. I'm just approaching this differently. The last 2 sentences are my point.
    In June of 1840, President Lorenzo Snow declared, "As man is, God once was; as God is, man may become." I frankly lack sufficient interest to research the full context of that remark, so forgive me using it as a standalone pronouncement. One which continues to rattle the belligerent bones of LDS detractors. They quote it as Mormon scripture, and to be fair, many Mormons consider it to be of equal certainty, and to have the authority of scripture.
    How must I look at this declaration in the context of your beautiful message of love? What does it mean that God was as man is? Since all Christians claim that He came in the flesh I won't pursue that half; but the second part requires further reflection.
    To know what it is to be as God is one must understand who and what God is. The simplest definition of God we have is that "God is." So if we are to be as "He is", we shall be. The next most simple definition, and one which must consume the remainder of our thoughts, pondering for those scholars amongst us :), and demands the rest of the effort and devotion of our struggle here: "God is Love." To be "as God is" is to "be perfect", in that way, even as our Father is perfect.
    To one day be as God is is not to assume His Omni attributes. It is a dauntingly, (sometimes the path seems too steep) challenging goal to spend eternity striving to be "as He is" in this awesome and wonderful way.
    Paul Maddox

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  14. This is an amazing insight – and you wrote words that I have felt time and time again, and could not find the “right” way of saying such.

    Thank you for sharing this with me.
    ~Lorena Brown

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  15. Beautiful put. Mahalo nui loa to bill and Kathleen
    from Kathy Mahauu

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  16. Subject: Thank you
    Thank you so muc for the insperational notes that you send out, I do hope all is well. Thanks again.
    Ron Ross

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  17. As always, your thoughts are so uplifting. It's a great age, and stage of life, to be reflecting and counting our blessings. You are a humble soul.

    Best thoughts to you and Kathleen,
    Sue Ann Bullock

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