Sunday, January 29, 2012

COMPANIONS OF THE HEART

Received this tale in an email from my nephew Bruce Barrett just before I started to write my thought for this week and, therefore, I have no idea who to credit as the creator. However, the tale fits so well with what I was thinking about today, I just had to include it in my Thoughts for the week.

An old cowboy was riding his trusty horse followed by his faithful dog along an unfamiliar road. The man was enjoying the new scenery, when he suddenly remembered dying, and realized that the dog beside him had been dead for years, as had his horse.

Confused, he wondered what was happening, and where the trail was leading them.

After a while, they came to a high, white stone wall that looked like fine marble. At the top of a long hill, it was broken by a tall arch topped by a golden letter "H" that glowed in the sunlight.

Standing before it, he saw a magnificent gate in the arch that looked like mother-of-pearl, and the street that led to the gate looked like gold.

He rode toward the gate, and as he got closer, he saw a man at a desk to one side. Parched and tired out by his journey, he called out, 'Excuse me, where are we?'

'This is Heaven, sir,' the man answered.

'Wow! Would you happen to have some water?' the man asked.

'Of course sir, come right in, and I'll have some ice water brought right up.'

As the gate began to open, the cowboy asked, 'Can I bring my partners, too?'

'I'm sorry, sir, but we don't accept pets.'

The cowboy thought for a moment, then turned back to the road and continued riding, his dog trotting by his side.

After another long ride, at the top of another hill, he came to a dirt road leading through a ranch gate that looked as if it had never been closed. As he approached the gate, he saw a man inside, leaning against a tree and reading a book.

'Excuse me,' he called to the man. 'Do you have any water?'

'Sure, there's a pump right over there. Help yourself.'

'How about my friends here?' the traveler gestured to the dog and his horse.

'Of course! They look thirsty, too,' said the man.

The trio went through the gate, and sure enough, there was an old-fashioned hand pump with buckets beside it. The traveler filled a cup and the buckets with wonderfully cool water and took a long drink, as did his horse and dog.

When they were full, he walked back to the man who was still standing by the tree. 'What do you call this place?' the traveler asked.

'This is Heaven,' he answered.

'That's confusing,' the traveler said. 'The man down the road said that was Heaven, too.'

'Oh, you mean the place with the glitzy, gold street and fake pearly gates? That's hell.

'Doesn't it make you angry when they use your name like that?'

'Not at all, actually, we're happy they screen out the folks who would leave their best friends behind.'


When I was just starting my formal educational experience (since I didn’t have the opportunity to attend kindergarten, it must have been during my first or second year of elementary school at Roy Elementary) I had the last real pet that I ever allowed myself to bond with and love.

We lived on a small bit of ground which allowed my father to enjoy a large garden. It was so large that he bought a horse to help him plow and prepare the ground for planting. We had chickens which roamed freely and occasionally met their demise on Roy road which went in front of our property. We had a family Irish setter which was my personal companion. We were constant companions as we adventured through the rows of the garden and around the small pasture playing the cowboy with his trusty companion.

One day we walked up Roy road to the Bamberger Station (a small commuter train which travelled between Salt Lake City and Ogden, Utah, when we lived in Roy in the 1940’s) and my wonderful companion followed us to the station. I wanted to run him back home, but my mother and sister insisted that we didn’t have time to wait for the next Bamberger. I told my companion to go home and he started in that direction. When we returned that evening he was nowhere to be found. A few days later a good neighbor told us that he had found my buddy by the tracks and had taken him home and buried him.

While I was growing up I was never able to allow myself to become attached to another pet. This was fine with my mother since when we left Roy we always lived in houses with small yards and she didn’t believe that animals should be allowed in the house. Also, my pleadings for another dog were never very heart felt nor sincere.

As I now look back I can see that my lack of personal experiences with live pets being replaced with vicarious movie type experiences was my loss, a loss which in many ways I will always regret and which can never be recovered.

I do remember a few gold fish and maybe a turtle, but never a pet who became a buddy and a companion.

TO BE CONTINUED

14 comments:

  1. Bill: great story today. I had an Irish Setter as a kid. I loved that dog. I had to get one after reading "Where the red fern grows".
    Being divorced for past 5 years I regret not getting a dog

    And just putting my son in the MTC 3 weeks ago I have never felt lonelier in my life. I need a dog. Fish and birds and cats just aren't the same

    Thanks
    Clark Smith

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  2. Dear Brother Riley:

    You always seem to provide answer to some questions of my life.

    Thank you.

    Daisy Ryan

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  3. Bill,
    The story of a man and his animal friends, of a boy and his dog are together great allegories of all our lives in more ways than can be sketched out in this brief reply.
    We have friends who are unlike us in many ways: in belief, in race, in sex (perhaps the greatest). Some choose to go amongst those with differences and bond as friends. Some selectively go amongst others, as with those who bond with their dogs and horses but raise other animals for food or for zoos. Some go amongst those unlike them to make them more like themselves, thus acceptable to them, ex. missionaries, but then withdraw as much as possible unto their own. Some are like those who know and raise animals, as for food for example, but do not bond with them; they too think they know others, but without the nuisance of a bond. Some, as in the movie, "The Village", never expose themselves to those unlike themselves at all. These are known today as xenophobes, or simply as true zealous patriots or believers. To themselves, they alone are the good, the worthy.
    When life has afforded one the opportunity to know others, unlike themselves, well enough to know them, that is really know them for who they are, to admire their good and to understand their limitations, either a bond or a wall of resistance must be formed. As one cannot easily butcher an animal with which one has bonded, so one cannot easily dismiss the concerns and aspirations of those with which one has bonded.
    You look back and see a loss at having no more pets after your childhood. Many of us, whether we care to reflect or not, have gaping holes in our lives (and in our characters) by the loss of friendships left unmade. Let us only with the time left us do as He asked: go amongst them; but not as a token compliance to His command, let's really go, not only with our bodies, or because we must work with them, but with our whole selves, with enough faith and trust in Him to bond, even with all those, His children who seem so different from ourselves.
    (sorry no time for editing)

    Be Skeptical but Open,

    Paul Maddox

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  4. Dear Bill,

    Today's Thoughts for a Sabbath Day is another variation of the cowboy "poem" I've seen before. This is the first time I've seen it with the horse, but it's still a beautiful story. I did a little sleuthing on the internet and found the story is based on an episode of The Twilight Zone by Rod Serling which was about "an old man and his dog." Whether credits were given on that episode or was created by the writers of that episode I know not. All I know is that it still makes one's eye glisten.

    Pat Savage

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  5. Lead Me
    Guide Me
    Walk Beside Me
    Help Me Find The Way

    Those few words of hope and trust I'm sure were inspired. Why? Because they continue to inspire me.
    Not the whole song mind you. I find little to recommend me to the remainder of the song.
    I sought much more, not just in that song. I wanted to make the whole equal to the inspired parts, but it never became so (for me) (we're not speaking of only that song any longer). But at least that part, as have many other small but precious things been kept as reminders, resources and comforts for me through these several years.

    It seems to me that much of my life has been thus: I am betimes blessed with a glimpse of the devine, and instead of cherishing that which, by grace, has been granted, I have tried to create a whole around the part, equal in quality to the glimmer of truth that was granted but with the added quantity that might be accrued by greed. Where I have been blessed I have too often diminished the blessing by insisting on the whole denied rather than simply embracing the part given.

    The glass is darkened,
    So into the twilight I go with more hope than assurance,

    Your)Apostle,
    Paul Maddox

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  6. Hi ,

    The story Bruce sent you has been circling the internet. I have received it several times from friends. I enjoyed your thoughts to go along with the story.

    Taylor, our youngest son (now 17) had a brown dog named Buddy. He was found by our neighbor and friend who was really into dogs. After exhausting all efforts to find the owner, Buddy became Taylor’s best friend. They slept together, played outside and he was such a sweet dog. He would hide at the sounds of fire-crackers and thunder and at times would cower away if you raised your voice. We suspected he might have been abused by the previous owner. Anyway Buddy became suddenly sick , bleeding from his mouth one morning, when Taylor was age 11. Jim took Taylor to school and then rushed the dog to the Vet. I remember it so well, as I was gone on a road trip to Utah for General Conference with two friends. Jim called me a couple hours outside of town and told me the news. I arrived home to find my young son, standing on the front lawn, waiting for me to drive up, crying his eyes out.

    I suggested to Taylor we could maybe wait a while and get a puppy for him to train. He would not have any part of that idea. He and Jim went to Reno within a couple of days and came home to tell me they had found a dog. I feel like your Mother, animals don’t belong in the house. So I was less than happy. To make the long story short, Taylor decided it was a sign that this dog should be his, as he was turned into the shelter one month before , on Taylor’s birthday. Much to my dismay we had another dog. Rusty is a cross between a lab and a German Shepard. He has been a wonderful dog, once we convinced him that this was home. Our grandchildren are especially attached to him and they spend lots of time loving that dog.

    It isn’t too late. You could still have a pet in your life. (When Taylor leaves for college, I could ship Rusty to you) !!!

    So I had my second knee replacement on Jan 5th, with the new procedure I told you about. I cannot believe the difference in everything. I was in the hospital 23 hours. I was able to drive at about 2 ½ weeks. My physical therapist can’t believe my range of motion, and it was been sooooo much better than the first time around. I am most grateful I only have two knees, and now I am done with that! I hope you are doing well with your recovery.

    I saw Kevin at the funeral service for Clair Earl, but I was across the audience, so I didn’t get to visit. It was a wonderful service for a wonderful man.

    I had a nice visit with Tyra and Bruce last May, when I went to women’s conference. They both have some serious health issues, and they just keep dealing with them. Tyra is currently having some trouble with her back. I hope she does not require surgery, as that is really very serious. I chatted with her on the phone a couple of weeks ago. I am sure I already told you that Tyra was my first best friend. My dad built a house next door to her home in Springville, when I was in the first grade. We have been friends ever since.

    So belated Happy New year!

    Hugs to you and Kathy!

    Ann Bradshaw and family

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  7. Bill,

    This is truly the GOOD NEWS, to know that I will be reunited with all my dogs and most of all have my motorcycle to ride in the hereafter!

    Thanks again for your weekly inspirational words.

    Mike Byrne

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  8. Gracias x estas pepitas de oro

    Yaneth Beatriz Díaz Rojas

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  9. Hola como estan? Espero que muy bien!
    Les puedo pedir un favor? Me pueden mandar los mensajes en ingles y español para compartirlos con mi esposo porfavor! O solo en ingles como les quede mejor! Gracias!

    Que Dios los siga bendiciendo. Y gracias otra vez por compartir estos hermosos mensajes con nosotros!

    Que Dios los bendiga.

    Angela Maria Stuart.

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  10. Great story! I'm waiting for the next installment.

    Jack Rushton

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  11. Hi William,

    "I love your thoughts for a Sabbath day....thanks!"

    Charlene Daniels

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  12. "I cannot agree more. We had a cats growing up which we loved, but with my kids we have dogs which truely are buddies to my kids. Each dog picked a kid. It's amazing to watch how their love and respect for life and caring for something besides themselves has helped them grow and develop aprreciation in other aspects of their life. One word of warning... it was extremely hard in November watching them mourn as one cherished friend was drawing her final breaths."

    Sonja Nielsen Kramer

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  13. So, Braddah Riley... Are trying to prepare us for the fact that you and Kathy are going to get a dog to love on in your senior years?
    James and I have already gone that route and she is WONDERFUL! All the boys are gone and far away (depending on where we are the current week) so I kept asking him about getting a dog, he had already conceded to a cat. But each dog I suggested, he said, No, not now. Finally he saw some long-haired dachshunds for sale and HE had had one as a child, so suddenly, he wanted to make room for a dog in our life!
    I was thankful and we both spoil her like crazy! Our arms of full of warmth and life once again! These animals really do bring a sweetness into our lives that we so needed!
    Ah, the Love....

    Hugs to you both! Be seeing you in a few months!
    The Kanekoa Fam, James, Shannon, Bitner, and Uilani

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  14. Thank you again for all of your wonderful messages. We look forward to them1

    BRUCE Ford

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